Sometimes it's just so very hard to tell other people what lies deep inside our heart. Dalam beberapa keadaan, mungkin lebih sukar bila ia melibatkan someone yang kita close with - yeah, someone yang we claimed that we understand them better, but actually at times we do feel like we were clueless with their behaviour.
How to confront with these people actually. I have no idea. I have few options actually - not to tell them what i feel and just bear with it, tell other people how i feel, or just let them know straight away. In this case, i chose option no 3. Not to tell them basically is equal to put a distance between me and them and telling other people would make me feel like i betray our friendship. So i decided, no 3 is the best option..despite that i might end up hurting their feelings or make things worse with all the miscommunication thingy ahead.
All i need to do is get ready with all possible consequences. Am i right?
But well..tidak semua yang mampu to deliver their opinion or suara hati dengan berkesan. In this case, i blew it. I personally think that i blew it all. I don't even know bagaimana penerimaan beliau, but after all those 'luahan perasaan', i'm still not feeling better. I failed to deliver it with the right approach. He probably not getting it at all..and to make it worse, i have to deal with a fact i that might have hurt his feeling.
At this point, i doubt if i was ever ready to deal with all the consequences...
Anyway... i learnt something today. Sometimes we don't have to understand everything. Maybe we should just leave it like the way it is. I think it would be better if i didn't bring up the issue at all. Perhaps the most sensible thing that i should do is just simply prepare myself to get used to it and it will all be good by itself.
Or....maybe i should get a life and stop rely on other people to please me. Owh pathetic me!!
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hello there.. still mad at me huh? :P
I think both of us did over react dis time.. hehe.. and for that I want to apologize to you for any misunderstanding between us.. and I appreciate a lot what you've told me the other day.. maybe its true and i just dunno how to admit it.. I'm sorry.. :(
hi there..
i couldn't help myself from smiling upon reading this comment. :)
i can't afford to keep losing u. i just want you to know that. :P
but..come to think of it, i dun think that if i've ever lost you anyway. coz u're still there...and u'll always be there.
ah..silly me. :(
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